![]() |
Zero Out and Start Over - Learning to Love
Yourself Again
One of the most time consuming things that
you can do that is absolutely for your best good
is to find yourself again...
This includes healing your past, you have to realize that all of these
things are in your past and you have to deal with
the struggles from your past by taking control of them, "you have to get
to it to get through it"
I personally spent a great deal of time learning how I forgive,.. and I
started slowly by forgiving a person that cut me off in traffic
as I progressed I was able to forgive bigger situations that I felt were
against me personally "were they really?" the hardest person I had to
forgive was myself and it took a very long time not just to forgive me, to
also remind myself that I am forgiven and not to take it out on me :)
the second part of this is to start serving yourself like... you love you!
it takes a lot of strength to love you again
and you cant let others influence you who you are when you are
searching for yourself,
I used a lot of meditation for these projects, it seemed the best way to
find a neutral place with myself and be able to realize all of the things
that were filling my mind
Once I got to the point where I was no longer nagging myself about the
irrelevant things, I suddenly began to realize that
there is a whole other world inside there and I play the most important part in it!
One of the most important things for me was
to look inside myself and separate the things that I actually liked from
the likes of others including relationships,
friends and social bindings. I found myself holding onto their likes and
by separating their likes from my own
I found that I was much happier knowing what I liked and being able to move forward with this knowledge
made me more content.
Learn what you love and set goals based on
your passions, not the passions of others.
Copyrights
2014